Friday, May 29, 2009

Words

Good Morning, I'd like to point out to those of you that may not have noticed that I've been away for a week. A whole week. Other than mindless comments on twitter and equally silly status updates on Facebook, I've had nothing upbeat to share. So rather than bring everyone down with my woe is me (again) attitude I've decided to take a break from blogging. Recently, my real life has force fed me a huge bowl of crap. Ugly, bitter, yucky crap. The kind of crap that no one should ever have to endure, the kind that leaves you wondering how and when did things get so bad. No my marriage is not in trouble and that's really all I care to share right here right now.

I hurt, but like a Superball I'll bounce back in time. I have my internet, well I thought I did until today when I came across a hurtful comment directed at me. On MY internet, MY play zone, the FUN place I go to get away from life's crap, because quite frankly I can't afford the $100 or whatever dollar amount co pay for professional psychological care, so my $24.95 internet works for me. I read, I laugh, I play games, I realize that even my crazy life is a bed of roses compared to some. IMAGINE THAT!

I'm sarcastic, I get sarcasm! Sarcasm is good stuff. It's all fun and games until someone gets hurt and now, I got hurt, on top of hurt.

So for today and EVERYDAY, choose your words carefully, you never know who'll be left crying as a result of them.


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27 comments:

Deb said...

Oh gosh. I'm so sorry you're going through a tough time right now! I wish I knew how to make it better - just know that I care and you can email me anytime.

Deb

kerrdeb@comcast.net

Elaine A. said...

I'm SO sorry things are rough right now. In some ways I can relate. I hope things swiftly improve and I'm sorry about the "hurt on top of hurt." That's just not cool. Sending smiles and hugs...

Patricia Rockwell said...

I can relate. Even though I'm not particularly sarcastic myself, I do appreciate good sarcasm--and babe, you are GOOD at sarcasm! I should know! I wrote the book on sarcasm (if you don't believe me, check it out at my publisher's website--Edwin Mellen Press).

Jennifer Suarez said...

ahhh, well this somewhat explains the nightly wal-mart wine. ;-)

Of course now I'm all curious about what was said cuz I can't imagine ANYONE having reason to be mean to you. I'm sooo going off to check your last couple of posts, even though the comment is probably gone by now.

Anyway, I love ya to death and I'm happy to have found you as a bloggy (and twitter!) friend.

Hey, do you think me singing a rendition of "The Sun'll come out tOOOMOOOrow?" will help make things better?

No, your right, me singing could ONLY make things worse, much much worse.

Anonymous said...

HUGS HUGS HUGS. Anon MOM

Tiffany said...

WHO? That's all I want and need to know. I will go all redneck coonass on them. Don't worry, I can cover my tracks. They taught me well in hillbilly school.

I'm sorry some asshat was mean to you. I hope they get a kick to the crotch (if a guy) or a fork in the eye (if a girl) cuz you know those are very similar. Right?

Soxy Deb said...

Oh if it was me, I'm sooo sorry. I don't think it was me, but I can be VERY sarcastic sometimes. So just in case, I swear I'm sorry and I'll never do it again.

Love you!!

I'm just me... said...

I am so sorry someone was not nice to you. I finally got your gift for pay it forward in the mail to you today. I hope it makes you feel a tiny bit better!

Meghan said...

Yo! Who is giving you crap?
Do I need to track that person down & give a beat down???
No one messes with you.

Sorry someone did that.
People can be so mean!

Together We Save said...

You make a very good point. Words can hurt. I hope things get better.

Michelle said...

Oh here's hoping life turns up for you soon -- on the plus side, it will be sunny this weekend, right? And don't let that one proverbial rotten apple spoil the whole barrel.

The Blue Ridge Gal said...

Sorry to hear your feelings got stomped on. Sometimes words get twisted when typed. Some people don't deal well with sarcasm when it's aimed at them. AND, sometimes people can be just downright mean and nasty, I hope your feelings heal soon and that you are back with all of us having a good time in the blogging world

Hugs,
Di
The Blue Ridge Gal

Domestic Goddess said...

Sending you hugs from Vegas and wishing you sweeter days.

Lola said...

{{hugs}} I hope things are better soon. Or different. When things seem bad, different is always good too.

Julie said...

I'm sorry, darlin. If you need to talk, I'm a great listener. Chin up and tits out...all will be fine.

Leah said...

all I can say is "BIG HUGS TO YOU!!" Hope whatever it is resolves itself soon, and know that many of us are missing you. And BOOOOOOOoo to the jerky jerk who left a mean comment

dana said...

If it's someone else, I'll go leave nasty comments. If it was me, all I can plead is that whatever it was, I didn't mean it as anything bad.

We've been so happy here in Florida, and then today, I let Lucky pee on one of those rubber edgers, that sits around bushes, and the neighbor raised his window and spent the next five minutes SCREAMING at me. I mean, in a brutal way. All I know is that he had just gotten home from church and hadn't had time to get drunk yet.

Words can hurt, and yelling shoves them in deeper.

Shelly said...

I'm sorry you're feeling yucky. "like a superball", I like that. Good to know you're looking for the good things to begin happening again. As for ill comments, I just don't get it. What ever happened to "If you have nothing nice to say..." Some people just need to leave their thoughts to themselves.
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Lenox Knits said...

I'm sorry that the internet turned against you when you were down. I've been having my own rough patch that I just opened up about in my blog. it can be cathartic to talk about it with friends but I understand you are feeling especially vulnerable now.

Amy Amy Bo Bamey said...

Dang, Sorry you got hurt on top of hurt. That is no fun!

I have been in a slump lately too. Just feel BLAH!

I hope nothing that came out of my mouth hurt you, was it one of my #threewordsaftersex ? :) Those were fun!

Mary@Holy Mackerel said...

Hey sweetie, sorry to hear life is throwing rocks at you right now. Just know you have lots of people who care about you, including me.

Take care of yourself, and I hope all is well soon.

Big hugs.

Over The Top Aprons said...

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Jenni Jiggety said...

Do you need me to kick someone's ass? Because I will. I am an ASS KICKER.

{{{Rita}}}

Nap Warden said...

On no...I hope things look up for you:)

Julie said...

I missed you lots MRM! Long distance hugs! Want me to sit my pregnant ass on someone? I will. Might as well use it for something productive.

Stacie said...

Sorry your going through a tough time! Hope things get better. Stopping by from Harriet's Comment Challenge!

Equidae said...

so sorry things are not as they should be... look at the bright side always and send the f... to anyone who makes you hurt when there is no reason why

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